dyk, it's NOVEMBER

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dyk, it's NOVEMBER
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Sat, 11-01-2008 - 6:27am
dyk, HAPPY NOVEMBER!!!!!!!!!!!!







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Registered: 10-29-2006
Mon, 11-24-2008 - 1:34pm

dyk yes, my sister-in-law and Aaron's ex are now best friends again.

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Mon, 11-24-2008 - 1:35pm

DYK- With our schedules finding time is hard...


DYK- This will work itself out, but lately it has been hard


DYK- One of the kids is always home and often home with friends


DYK - On Friday I thought we'd have the house to ourselves - both had out of the house

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Mon, 11-24-2008 - 1:37pm
DYK - Ok, so will Aaron go to the party or stay home with you?

Sheila

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Mon, 11-24-2008 - 1:37pm

DYK yeah, I'd be pretty pissed. I mean, it totally depends on the specific situation and the people, and their attitudes, but since Aaron has made it clear that it makes your family uncomfortable, then I'd say it's not at all ok.

DYK do you think they do it because they want them to get back together? Or did they just develop a relationship with her while she and Aaron were together?

DYK how often does it happen? Because if your SIL and MIL are actually friends with her, then it's understandable that they would spend time together. But there's no reason for them to force you to spend time with her, or for her to be invited to family events.

DYK I know all about family drama and difficult MIL's, and I sorry you have to go through this. It's great that you and Aaron are on the same side. Maybe both of you should sit down with his mother and SIL and tell them how you feel. And if they still insist on inviting her, then you need to know in advance so you can either prepare yourself, or not go.

DYK I definitely think it's better to have your feelings out in the open, instead of keeping it to yourself and just trying to deal with it.

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Mon, 11-24-2008 - 1:38pm

DYK so are you still TTC? Or did you put that off for now?


DYK ha ha, that last question was really personal, but if I know you, and I think I do, then I don't think you'll care. But if you do, please don't answer it. :)


dyk lol...NOT too personal!

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Mon, 11-24-2008 - 1:40pm

dyk my goodness!

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Mon, 11-24-2008 - 1:42pm

DYK I definitely don't think you're being overly sensitive.

DYK that's too bad about your SIL treating you like that. I would feel the same way.

DYK how do you two get along? Maybe you could invite her to coffee or something. It may not work, but you never know.

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Registered: 10-29-2006
Mon, 11-24-2008 - 1:45pm

dyk Aaron will take Hayden to the party...I would never ask him to not go.


dyk when I told him yesterday that I wasn't going, he said "ok".

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Mon, 11-24-2008 - 1:46pm

DYK- On Friday, I did not do any of the driving of the kids!


DYK- How that came to be, I'll never know, but I appreciated it, especially with all the comings/goings all night!

Sheila

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Mon, 11-24-2008 - 1:46pm

DYK four years???

DYK I think (and this is just my opinion) that if you're not going to go, then Aaron shouldn't go either. Actions speak so much louder than words, and maybe they'll get it eventually.

DYK but I know it's not that easy for you because of Hayden. I'm sure she really wants to go to the party. So honestly, I'm not sure how I would handle that.

DYK but you're smart for not going. You don't need the stress.

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