Tween Party Question

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Registered: 01-03-2006
Tween Party Question
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Mon, 01-09-2006 - 7:44am

Looking for a suggestion here.


My 12 yo DD is planning a

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Registered: 10-16-1999
Mon, 01-09-2006 - 8:30am

I'd stay out of it.

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Registered: 02-14-2000
Mon, 01-09-2006 - 8:38am
I agree with Rose - I'd let your dd invite who she wants.
Pam
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Registered: 10-21-2005
Mon, 01-09-2006 - 8:40am
At this age, it's really her call. If she ends up regretting it, there will be a lesson for her about forgiveness. There will also possible by a lesson for Lisa about the consequences of bad behavior. Your intentions are good, but I think you should let this one go.
jt
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Registered: 01-03-2006
Mon, 01-09-2006 - 9:19am

Thanks for the words of wisdom! I agree with all of you. I will see what DD wants to do on the day the invites go out and leave it up to her.


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Mon, 01-09-2006 - 12:53pm

I agree - its her call. if your dd was being mean or unreasonable - then MAYBE you would want to talk to her about her behavior. but i think she is right - this girl was mean to your dd, why should she have her at her party?


and of course, by the time the party rolls around, there will be new issues.... ;-)