Daughter lying about boy
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Daughter lying about boy
| Fri, 04-27-2007 - 12:33pm |
I need some advice on an issue that has me stumped. Neither of my teen girls ever caused trouble but the 15 year old has worried me simply because she is extremely quiet. She literally never converses with me or other family members except maybe the odd comment about the news or something. So never know what is going through her head, but her marks were good, so I just figured she was quiet. Since January, she started to spend alot of time on MSN messenger which I don't really like but she told me she was talking to a girl from school. Next, she started going to this girl's house which is no big deal, but her increasing withdrawal and peculiar behaviour is really concerning me. I suspected that she was seeing a boy by the way she was acting and it was kind of confirmed when he called here one day. He is the longtime boyfriend of the girl she says she is hanging out with, who recently broke up. I snooped, had to, and I am absolutely right, she is going to his house and using his ex girlfriend as her cover up. Last Sunday she said she was going to the mall with her girlfriend, whose mother was picking them up. The car stopped quite a distance away but I could still see that there was a boy in the car. I mentioned this to her older sister who said, she is probably just lying because she thinks I won't let her be friends with this boy. How do I get her to admit it, when it is a big coverup, not only so that I don't find out, but the ex-girlfriend whose ex she is dating. And yes, I do not want my daughter dating until 16 and certainly not going to a boy's house.
