DD's BF is planning to cheat.....

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Registered: 03-28-2003
DD's BF is planning to cheat.....
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Sat, 12-22-2007 - 8:28pm

I found this out through some snooping.

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Sat, 12-22-2007 - 8:38pm
Tread carefully..... From experience it's best to stay out of these things as hard as it is!!



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Registered: 02-25-2002
Sat, 12-22-2007 - 8:50pm
I'm sorry I don't have any master plan for you...I hope you can console her some when she does find out. What a stinker! On the plus side, hopefully he will be gone for good after this.

 

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Sat, 12-22-2007 - 9:14pm

when they went out twice before, he was seeing his former girlfriend on the side, because she would give him BJ's.

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Sat, 12-22-2007 - 9:21pm
Just my opinion, and believe me, I've done my share of snooping, but I wouldn't touch this with a ten-foot pole. I think she has to learn this for herself and as someone else already said, if you're the one to tell her, it will only make her mad at you. Since the BF is there...is there any way you could say something to him?? I definitely understand your wanting to throw him out. I'd feel the same way. I think this is one of the problems with snooping; you find out things you wish you didn't know. And in this case, it isn't something dangerous, so I don't think you should say anything to your DD about it. It can only undermine your relationship with her, especially if she finds out how you know this information.
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Sat, 12-22-2007 - 11:26pm
well, since he left some incriminating evidence out in the open, I can only guess that maybe he wants her to find out.
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Sun, 12-23-2007 - 8:51am

I'm with the others - tread very, very lightly on this one, or you're going to quickly become the bad guy here.

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Sun, 12-23-2007 - 10:36am
I agree with the other responses...dont' touch this one with a ten foot pole.

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Registered: 02-25-2002
Sun, 12-23-2007 - 1:55pm

I used to be a cheater too...for a few years in my 20's, after a huge burden had been lifted off my shoulders,

 

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Sun, 12-23-2007 - 6:19pm
I'm in aggrement with everyone else on this.
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Sun, 12-23-2007 - 8:11pm

I'm glad things worked out the way they did for you.