I'm having a really hard time

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I'm having a really hard time
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Wed, 12-26-2007 - 4:23pm

Hey all,


This may end up really long and maybe a bit graphic at points :(


Over the last year that I have been on this board, I know that I have mentioned that Max had a couple of really tough years for various reasons.

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Registered: 07-21-2006
Wed, 12-26-2007 - 4:32pm

Hugs, Julie! I'm so sorry that this is bringing back such sad

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Registered: 09-29-2004
Wed, 12-26-2007 - 4:37pm


You are not babbling. Of course, you are worried and it doesn't sound silly. Surgery is serious business. You have every right to be upset and worried and scared.

I will keep you are Max in my thoughts tomorrow. Everything will be fine and soon this will
all be a bad memory.

Take care and try to get some rest tonight

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Registered: 02-25-2002
Wed, 12-26-2007 - 4:46pm

Sending lots of prayers and postive thoughts towards Max and your family...I would be scared too, it's normal. Try to stay in the moment and before you know it, you'll be bringing him home...I hope that talking about it takes some of the weight off of your shoulders..


 

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Wed, 12-26-2007 - 4:53pm

WOW.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 12-26-2007 - 4:53pm

You both will be in my thoughts!

Surgery scares me as well so I understand. I just get nervous anytime anyone I care about(including my pets)go under anesthesia.

It will be so nice for him to be pain free and reasonably free of this past incident.

Hope it goes quick and smooth

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 12-26-2007 - 4:55pm

Oh Julie, I had no idea that happened to Max. It is heart wrenching to see our children hurt, and then to have to be hurt yet again, to be fixed. You have already been through the really rough part, this will just be a "blurp" in the screen of life. Prayers, hugs, and healing thoughts to you, Max and your family. He will be fine.

How long will his recovery be - will he be on crunches or just have to rest for a while.

Get well - everything going smoothly vibes to you.

Lisa

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Registered: 02-14-2007
Wed, 12-26-2007 - 5:41pm

Oh, Julie, I'm almost in tears reading your post!! What a heart-wrenching experience that must have been. I don't know how you were brave enough to go through the initial ordeal, let alone still having to deal with it. My DS broke one of his front teeth a few weeks ago, and I couldn't even bear to look at that. I can only imagine what you, Max, and your family have been through.


I definitely will be sending lots of prayers & positive thoughts your way! Please keep us posted!


ej


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Registered: 02-14-2000
Wed, 12-26-2007 - 5:49pm
Oh Julie - of course you have my prayers!
Pam
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Registered: 12-14-2006
Wed, 12-26-2007 - 6:04pm

Oh Julie - your post brought tears to my eyes - what a horrible thing to have gone through! No wonder you relive it from time to time. I was in a car accident four years ago, and I STILL shiver a bit when I drive by that spot. I can't imagine how I'd feel if it was one of my kids.

Mega-hugs and PPT for you and Max tomorrow. I'll be thinking of you all day, and can't wait to hear that Max came through just fine.

(((HUGS)))

Sue

Sue, mom to Leah and Seth


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Registered: 10-16-1999
Wed, 12-26-2007 - 6:12pm

Many hugs for you Julie - and prayers for Max of course.

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