A vent (long)

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Registered: 07-21-2006
A vent (long)
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Thu, 12-27-2007 - 9:43am

I haven’t posted much in the last few weeks because life in the real world has speeded up for me. Christmas was, overall, stressful, and I had more people in my house than I am use to (7 versus the normal 3). I am hoping the New Year will bring some calm and routine to my family life.


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Registered: 02-25-2002
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 9:59am

Good luck in this exciting new venture...what a wonderful thing you are doing! I don't know if I could go thru with it...I'm sure you are proud of your kids as well, for being supportive in their own kid kinda way. Because of your generous intervention, perhaps there will be one less bully, violent incident, drop-out, etc. etc.


Take heart, many of these stories have happy endings.


I have been in some very down and out situations in my past. I hope this mom is truly grateful for what you are doing.


Respectfully yours...


 

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Registered: 10-31-2007
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 10:06am

Amelia,


I think what you are doing is very admirable. Although we can not save the world, I believe this boy came into your life for a reason! I know you say it wasn't planned out and made a rash decisions,but the more you think it out I believe you will see a way to get threw this. You are and have the ability to change this boys life.


Children need stability and limitations to become very secure and productive. Your son is probably a very good influence on this boy.


I have been in the same situation,only have not taken it to this level. The boys my sons came in contact with had families. Not stable ones mind you but family members to take them.


So take a big breath,calm down and know what a glorious thing you are doing for this boy.


I think you are on the right track with the paper work IMO I would try to get them notarized or something. You want to first off protect you and your family! There could be problems in the future and you need the paperwork in proper order!


My very best wishes to you! You are a beautiful person inside for taking on this responsibility and will be rewarded greatly.

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Registered: 02-14-2007
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 10:10am
I don't have any BTDT advice, but I really admire you for what you're doing! It's seems like your family was sent into this boy's life for a reason. I admire you for having the courage and the generosity to give this boy a chance to be part of your family. Please keep us posted on how things go! Good luck to all of you!
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Registered: 03-06-2006
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 11:38am

Amelia,


I have not a single word of wisdom for you, but tons of awe and admiration!

 

 

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-14-2006
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 11:46am

I wish there was a "Wow!" icon, this is a great thing you are doing!! Clearly this boy feels comfortable in your home - whether it's a short term or a long term situation, you have made a difference in his life! Kudos, also, to your kids. Friend or not, it's not easy to take another person into your home. It's generous of them to 'share' their mom with this boy.

(((HUGS)))

Sue

Sue, mom to Leah and Seth


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iVillage Member
Registered: 07-19-2003
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 12:12pm

Its so easy to get attached to young people and children.

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-2006
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 1:13pm

Thanks to all of you for your well wishes! I am truly not trying to be "Ms. Wonderful", but I do see the goodness in this boy and yes, my heart got involved! Ugh! (I avoid animal shelters for this very reason!) But this is a human being

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-2006
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 1:21pm

LOL! It was mainly telling them that under no circumstance was anyone to go into anyone else's bedroom unless they were granted permission by the keeper of the room. And that no one was required to like anyone else, but that everyone

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 1:26pm
Good for you!

 

Jenn, wife to Kurt, mom to a housefull...

DS16 Gunther, DSD13 Chandler, DS6 Liam, Baby Girl Delaney due *anym

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Registered: 07-21-2006
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 1:29pm

Thanks! I still do not

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