College Decisions....

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-03-2004
College Decisions....
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Wed, 01-02-2008 - 2:33pm

Hey all......we are at that time when the college decision needs to be made.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 01-02-2008 - 2:46pm

They will always listen to people other than us even though we are saying the same thing. Husbands are the same way, correct?

Frustrating!

I transferred my sophomore year to be with the BF and we split shortly afterwards. I actually ended up at a better school because of it. I wasnt the first or the last female to follow this path

I would let it ride and deal with the transfer when and if it happens

My old age makes me very aware of 'regrets'. If this relationship doesnt work out, it would be nice if she felt she gave it her all instead of having to deal with 'if only......'

Regrets are no fun

I do have to ask what BFs plans are for next year. Will he just go where she goes?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-03-2004
Wed, 01-02-2008 - 3:32pm

Yes, you are correct!

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-19-2003
Wed, 01-02-2008 - 3:37pm

I think you may want to have a casual conversation about the "realities" of post secondary studies and what her schedule will be like.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-03-2004
Wed, 01-02-2008 - 4:01pm

Excellent point.