7th grade friend issue
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7th grade friend issue
| Fri, 01-04-2008 - 5:11pm |
My dd has two friends from school who have know each other since they were very small.
| Fri, 01-04-2008 - 5:11pm |
My dd has two friends from school who have know each other since they were very small.
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I agree with you. It isn't her responsibility to keep the girls apart. She should invite who ever she wants to her party and the girls and the mom's will have to deal with it, not you dd.
My dd has someone that she will not be around, and for very good reasons, not just a small incident. Some of her friends are still friends with him and if they invite him to a party or whatever, she just doesn't go. Her friends know that she will not be around him, but that is not their problem and she has told them such. She just asks that they tell her if he is going to be there.
I would think that if my 17 yo dd can work this out for herself, this mom and the girls ought to be able to do the same.
I'd tell her to go ahead and invite them and let the chips fall where they may.
I agree with you, if you and your daughter want both girls at your house then invite them.
Does dd have reason to think this mom might make a scene?
I agree it is the mom's responsibility to check this out ahead but if she doesnt......is she the type who will walk in and yell or cry or embarrass all the girls in question
I would be torn between what is right and just and not wanting my DD's birthday ruined if this woman has a 'history'. I would likely give the mom a heads up myself. It could be interjected into conversation "so excited about this party. Sara, Alice, Maria are all going to be there-we will have a houseful"
Thanks all.
I've actually never met the mother.
Ummmm, do you feel comfortable with this?
I would NOT let the girls be deceptive about this either.
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How friendly are you with the other girls mom?
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Well do you know what the incident is in the first place? I mean you might just not want your DD to invite this girl either...............I agree with everyone else though,,,It is the mothers responsibility especially if she knows all three girls are likely to want to be together.................I don't believe in the deceptive part either that could come back to haunt you....................just
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