Teen sex

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-08-2008
Teen sex
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Tue, 01-08-2008 - 10:41pm

Hello,


I need advice, it has recently come to my attention that my 13 yr old daughter has had sex.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 01-08-2008 - 11:34pm

Are yous sure she has had sex or does it appear he is talking her into it? I dont need details but what you said could easily go either way

Does she know you monitor her page?

I have 3 boys ages 16-22 and some things never change. Girls who have sex or perform oral sex are not thought of well by boys. They will want to spend time with them, giving them the illusion of popularity, but it is unlikely they will want a serious relationship with them

Dont know how you can get this through to her

I tried to google and found this but surely there is more out there from THEIR age group, not us old folks. I think the girls need to hear from boys what boys think

http://abcnews.go.com/Primetime/Health/Story?id=1968984&page=1

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-31-2007
Wed, 01-09-2008 - 12:01am
Why would professional help be needed for teen sex? I mean, it's not ideal, but it happens.





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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-08-2008
Wed, 01-09-2008 - 12:06am
Thank you for your response!
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-08-2008
Wed, 01-09-2008 - 12:09am
Its not just the subject of teen sex, its because she is only 13, if she was 16 or 17 I could stomach this matter easier.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-16-1999
Wed, 01-09-2008 - 7:13am

I have to agree with windrush... boys "like" the girls who are willing to have casual sex, but they don't respect them.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-25-2002
Wed, 01-09-2008 - 7:42am

Hi, there...while many teens are sexually active, or at the very least, have experimented...13 is still way too young. When kids have sex this young, it is surely for all the wrong reasons. You need to take control of this situation at once. (I know two girls that have been having sex since the 6th grade. In both cases, there are no parental controls whatsoever. One was deserted by mom, the other is a single mom of 2 who works 3 jobs and can't be there. No excuse. that's just the way it is)


From a safety standpoint, you need

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-17-2005
Wed, 01-09-2008 - 11:49am

I'm not sure if I understand you correctly - she has had sex and admitted it?