Tell me if I'm over-reacting?

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Tell me if I'm over-reacting?
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Wed, 01-16-2008 - 11:20pm

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Wed, 01-16-2008 - 11:35pm

I can't help feeling like this is somehow related to her issues at school.

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Wed, 01-16-2008 - 11:45pm

To me it sounds like you are wrapping yourself up in your daughter’s life and becoming a little too involved / too observant. It seems like you might be making a mountain out of a mole hill. She may be a little flirty and demanding, but what you described doesn’t sound like she is becoming a danger to herself by being promiscuous or anything akin to that nature.

Manic episode? Probably not. It sounds like possible normal behavior after exiting a long term relationship. Some people act different when they realize they are suddenly free of a particular burden.

It might be a good idea to step back, give her a little space and try to focus on other things.

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Wed, 01-16-2008 - 11:51pm

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Wed, 01-16-2008 - 11:56pm

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Thu, 01-17-2008 - 12:06am

Hey, you told her to enjoy the single life, right?

For once the girl decides to listen to you-LOL

Seriously, although it does sound a bit over the top, I would worry more if she attached herself at the hip to the first guy who came around.

Given those two choice, I would personally take this one!

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Thu, 01-17-2008 - 1:26am

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My thoughts, exactly. I hope she continues with counseling; that should keep her focused.

Kim--I'm so glad you're posting here again. You're so real in your posts, and I know there are others out there with similar teens, who appreciate your spilling your soul! I bet it'll be a big relief when your DH is back home.

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Thu, 01-17-2008 - 7:14am

Well as far as the text messaging goes,,you

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Thu, 01-17-2008 - 7:31am

>>>Sit down with her, have a heart to heart on what she wants to do with her life. What is her passion? Where does she want to be, want to go? How does she see herself? And what do you need to do to support her in finding this path? <<<<

I think this is wonderful advice - moving away from the specifics to a more general discussion, and helping her see the longer term picture - teens have a hard time planning long term, you can help her do this!

I don't think you're over-reacting - but maybe you can shift WHAT you're reacting to.

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Thu, 01-17-2008 - 7:42am

I don't think that you are overreacting at all...I really feel worried for you both.

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Thu, 01-17-2008 - 8:46am
You've got alot of great advice. Hope some of it helps.
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