I don't know what to do

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Registered: 06-21-2004
I don't know what to do
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Wed, 06-23-2004 - 11:54pm
After a year and a half of break and ups and make ups, my I guess "ex" boyfriend decided that he needed time on his own. He's now friends with people who bullied him for ten years and seemingly use him. He told me he didn't know whether or not he's inlove with me anymore. I cried for hours each day, it was awful. So then I decided that I wanted us to be f*** friends. Which I wanted soley because I still wanted a sexual relationship with him. Now, he's starting to show signs of I guess "liking me" again. Before he was very mean and would not want to even talk to me, now he's polite and it's weird. Right now he's busy because he flew an artist in from California to record some songs. So we haven't been up to date on our "get togethers". Sometimes he acts like he kinda wants to be with me and other times he doesn't. So I'm left here either waiting for him or not. He keeps on saying, he needs time and he doesn't know what he wants but it's killing me because I still love him and want to be with him. If anyone has any suggestions or any opinions please let me know.
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Registered: 10-27-2003
Thu, 06-24-2004 - 6:00am
What he's doing is not fair on you at all and you shouldn't have to sit around waiting because i know it hurts but i can understand why you havent just left him and moved on, it isnt that easy and if when you love someone you put yourself through hell to hold on to them , its so sad the things we do for love , i wanna be f*** friends with my ex to because i do miss that intimate part of the relationship but after eight weeks now i still have not seen him at all, my advice to you would be too continue with how things are going even try pulling away for a couple of days and see if he tries harder if not then talk to him about how you feel and if he is still stuffing you around then as hard as it is try and move on , maybe after a few weeks he will realise what he lost , if not then you can find happiness else where. :( easier to say then do.

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Roxy