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| Fri, 06-25-2004 - 10:10pm |
I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years. He is this most wonderful guy who has always treated me like I was his princess. Recently he got a knew job as a waiter...he started making some new friends all of which are pretty much single guys who love to go out every night and enjoy the single life. Well, about 2 wks ago we sat down and talked and he was talking about us breaking up and just taking time away from each other. (I guess I should have mentioned we are both still fairly young, I am 21 and he is 20.) Anyways, he wanted just some time to be a college guy and go out w/ the guys and stuff basically b/c having a girlfriend is just not fitting in w/ the new lifestyle. ANyways we agreed to still be friends and talk and hang out and everyting was going great. WE had even talked about how we did want to get back together eventually and that we loved each other. Last Friday night we even hung out and talked about are possibilites. He told me I was the one, he just needed sometime away to make sure that that is what he really wanted. WEll I didnt see or talk to him for about 3 or 4 days after that b/c i Had been visiting my parents at home and when I came back he was just acting completely different. Like he didnt even want to be around me. And it really hurts b/c I dont know what happened in like the 3 or 4 days I was gone. Well part of me kinda knows, see one of his friends really has never liked me so I know he has been talking bad about me and that is who he as been hanging out with. This all just hurts so bad b/c I have lost not only the love of my life but my best friend. I dont know how we could go from trying to get back together to this. Is there any hope at all???? For anything w/ us????? I would appreciate ANY advice that you have.
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| Sat, 06-26-2004 - 9:17pm |
I am sorry to hear that he is so easily influenced by his friends and doesn't follow his own judgement. Is it possible for you to talk to him and ask him why the sudden change? After only 4 days, that does sound pretty odd. I wonder what they did...Hang in there, this is a rough patch that hopefully you two can get through together.
