AMF

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Registered: 01-07-2004
AMF
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Sun, 06-27-2004 - 11:06am
Seriously... AMF. We all know what this means. A dios mother f------. I think it is a popular phrase not used enough by the strong women that I've seen on this board. I think we need to start saying it more often.

Milton, you're a lawyer, a strong, smart women who has just come through some hard times. I bet your beautiful (you're already back in the game) and its his loss. Say AMF for me. Peacefuldreamer, he thinks you slept with his best friend 2 years ago and you never really did yet he doesn't believe you. Say AMF for me because your ex should be worrying about all the men in your 'future' who are going to want you since he can't step up to the plate.

To my ex - Keith, I hope you warm your long cold lonely nights with your online whore girlfriends. :) I hope the cyber sex keeps you satisfied. :) I hope you buy lots of windex to clean of your PC monitor because lickin' the screen is as close as you'll get to a real woman. I hope your parents arrange you a nice, sweet marriage with a 19 yr old virgin and that she isn't computer literate so she never has to find out about your online whoring. :) AMF!!!!!!!!

Ladis, the next time you wake up and feel that pang in your heart because your ex left you, say "AMF". The next time you spend a Sunday alone and long for the company of your ex, say "AMF". The next time you see him in public, nod, smile and say to yourself "AMF".

It's their loss, anyway. We come here and we are all so sad and down. But I tell you what - it's 78F out there today in NJ. Its sunny, breazy, and there are lots of people in the world just waiting to meet us. Men who want to love us, tell us how fabulous we are, friends who can't wait to see us and spend time with us.

We have every day for the rest of our lives to look forward to because we get to spend them with ourselves and mold our lives the way we want them to me. If our exes don't want to come a long for the ride, they can get the heck out of the way and let us keeping going.

AMF boys. AMF....

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Registered: 04-08-2004
In reply to: malena78
Sun, 06-27-2004 - 2:33pm
Okay, I indulged my curiosity and checked out that car enthusiast message board he posts to. They had another meet, again just blocks from my house. Anyway, there were pictures up. And it's just so ridiculous, all these mostly teenagers oohing and ahhing over their cars, with the rims, and the body kits, all of them with their hoods open, looking at whatever waste-of-cash nonsense they've done in there. And there's a picture of my ex (my 30-year old lawyer ex), standing around with some teenagers, and I just wondered what on earth I was thinking. I put up with the stupid car stuff while we were together, even bought him some car part he'd been longing for, but I just never got it. And the fact that he spent his Saturday afternoon and night cruising with the teenagers, it just seems so pathetic. This is the guy who broke my heart, seriously? I don't know, I think taking him off the pedestal works wonders, and he's just a guy, not a symbol or anything more than that, just some confused, immature, selfish guy. He's putting back on weight, too. I saw the pic and didn't feel a thing. Malena, you're right - I'm hanging on in my head, but that's got more to do with me than anything he has to offer as a person.
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Registered: 02-21-2004
In reply to: malena78
Sun, 06-27-2004 - 4:21pm
Very well put!

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Registered: 06-06-2003
In reply to: malena78
Sun, 06-27-2004 - 5:20pm
OH! You made me laugh and clap!

I don't apply it to my most recent ex-bf... turns out he's a good guy who was upright and honest in our relationship. Just wasn't IT, for us.

Now... my ex-husband.. 'nother story! I wish I'd read this post two years ago, when I left. No, 12 years before, when I married him! AMF!! Oh, he needed to hear that loud and strong from me.

Most of the other guys I dated, too. Well, not Matt. he was sweet... just dumb. He actually believed I had Warp Drive on my 1969 Toyota Corona station wagon....

Love, Barb

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Registered: 04-08-2004
In reply to: malena78
Sun, 06-27-2004 - 6:56pm
Okay, this is awful, but well, heck, cut me some slack, I had a bad breakup. I got some advice during the first weeks of my breakup, which was that it would be such a stressful experience I would either lose or gain at least 10 pounds in a couple of weeks. One of my girl friends said be sure you make the right choice, there, it makes all the difference to your redeveloping self-confidence. I lost, not exactly by choice (I was just off my feed for a while from emotional upset). My ex made the wrong choice. I did look at pictures from his car meet (it's been 6 weeks since I checked his car forum, it was actually an almost-anniversary for us and I did indulge my momentary curiosity). But I zoomed up a picture of him looking at cars, and he looks awful. Really, he's put on weight, he now has an unmistakable sort of roll of fat, and he's wearing possibly the least-flattering outfit I've seen on a guy in a while, this baby-blue shirt that clings to his new belly and his man-boobs. He was out on Saturday night like this, and even though it was basically a geek guy event, he looked really terrible, definitely not in prime back on the market shape. He badly needed a shave, and he's got the haircut I thought I'd convinced him was unflattering, too short, it emphasizes a receding hairline, and it makes his head look like a giant egg. I just can't imagine a girl responding to him. Honestly, he's not Mr. Nice, he's Mr. Powerful and Successful, and he's not looking the part. I just can't imagine him painting the town red in this kind of shape.

I know it's cruel, but he was a selfish jerk who couldn't be bothered with my cervical cancer and pressured me for sex starting 3 days after my surgery, so I feel self-righteous about it. I also think that, if I hear from him, it's going to be because he's really striking out with the ladies, and I'm forewarned. Even though it's a bit witchy to be this way, it's kind of reassuring to know that he's got a bit of karmic backlash from being a complete creep to me, maybe the blow to his pride of being left has had some side effects that will keep him from playing his selfish games with another woman for a while.

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Registered: 03-05-2004
In reply to: malena78
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 1:53am
WOW...amazing how a simple phrase like that can make me feel so much stronger. I've told myself it's his loss, not mine (it truly is, he's 26-divorced-w/ 2 kids) and I'm 24-independent-w/ a bright future)..that he's a selfish jerk and that I really need to once and for all shut the door on the past...and there's no better way to say goodbye then "adios m***** f******". =)