whatis he thinking?

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Registered: 06-22-2004
whatis he thinking?
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Mon, 06-28-2004 - 7:00pm
My ex and I broke up about a week and a half ago, and he moved out. We have a 3 year old child together, so we have to be in contact.

He picked her up last tuesday evening to spend the night with him, we kind of talked, but just about her and what she needed to bring etc... He dropped her off wednesday morning and he was pretty talkative, told me what she did etc.. He said he would come by friday after work to get her for the weekend.

Friday night he showed up about 6:00, I told him I would pack her stuff (I did'nt think he would show up for some reason) he went in her room with her and I was in there packing her stuff. He asked me if we wanted to go out to dinner and I told him yah (I was actually really hungry and was going to get something to eat when they left)

When he got their that night his dog and my daughters dog took off together, so he ended up going out to look for them. They did'nt come back so he suggested that I go pick something up. I did. the dogs came back while I was gone and we ate dinner. he asked me if I wanted to run up to Wal-mart with him and I said yes. We ended up not going- we talked for awhile and it was getting late (8:30). He asked if he sould get our daughter around 12:00 the next day ( it was almost her bedtime and he would have to clean up his room and then get her to bed) i said it was fine.

He showed up about 11:30. He had dropped his dad off at the grocery store, so he hung out for awhile. we were just talking about stuff and a commercial came on for a movie we both wanted to see. i said I'm gonna go see that tonight. I was'nt being snotty or anything I just said it! He said "Who are you going with your boyfriend?" and I said no- and it would'nt be any of your business if i was! We just kept talking. When he and our daughter were leaving he said "Have fun with your boyfriend!" I laughed and he left. he did'nt seem mad or anything!

he dropped our daughter off on Sunday and i laid he down for a nap. We talked for a few minutes and then he said "I guess I'll get out of your hair". I told him he was'nt bothering me and he could stay if he wanted. He asked if I had eaten and then we ordered a pizza. He stayed for awhile and then he went home. his phone had been cut off and he told me he was going to get it cut back on today "so I could call him" i said "you can call me too!" we both laughed! And then I screwed up i said "I love you" and he said "I love you too" and he kissed me. i miss him- I'm not going to call him though! I doubt he got his phone cut back on, it poured down rain today and I'm sure he did'nt work so there would be no reason to drive all the way into town!

Am i reading too much into this?

Ang

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Registered: 04-04-2003
Mon, 06-28-2004 - 9:58pm
Do you really want to get back together with him? What broke you two up to begin with?
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Registered: 06-22-2004
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 8:16am
Yes, I want to be with him.

We had been fighting alot. We almost bought a house together, but it ended up falling through.

Fights consisted of him not cleaning up after himself, he broke his elbow a couple of months ago and has'nt been able to work much, so I was paying the bills. We ended up saying some pretty mean stuff to eachother and he left and moved in with his cousin.

We've broken up before and have always gotten back together, but this time I'm not calling or anything.

I'm not waiting for him to come back and and making some decisions about what to do, without him. I have a job interview tommorow about an hour away at the beach. My lease ends at the end of this month too. Maybe this is a sign!

Ang

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Registered: 01-30-2004
Tue, 06-29-2004 - 12:33pm
Don't look now but you two are dating!!! If that's what you want, great but if it's not what you want you need to put a stop to it now!!
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Registered: 06-22-2004
Wed, 06-30-2004 - 8:18am
Well, he came by last night after work. He said he wanted to stop by and check on us. When he came in he gave me a hug and a kiss.

Our daughter was in the bathtub, so we talked for a few minutes. He said he was tired because he worked all day ( he builds houses- was at work at 7:00 and got off at 6:00)

We were talking about work. A guy he hired got his girlfriend a job with them. The guy only works sometimes, but his girlfriend will get a ride with another guy they work with.

I was kind of joking around and said "Does she hit on you?" and he said "No, she's not my type."

I know he's not with her because she is straight up UGLY. But what about the comment "she's not my type" It kind of makes me think he's looking for someone else.

When he was leaving I asked him if he wanted to come by for dinner thursday night and he said "yes". He gave me a hug and a kiss and told me he loved me.

I don't know if I'm reading too much into this or what. Maybe he was tired. He was just so nice this weekend, not like he was'nt nice last night, but I don't know.

Help would be greatly appreciated!!!

Ang