The ex is runing my reputation
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| Tue, 06-29-2004 - 2:50pm |
I met a new guy. I didn't know that he knew the ex through business circles until sometime later.
When the ex found out about me and the new guy, he told the new guy negative things about me. SAYING I'M A HO.
Last week I was speaking with someone and they said the ex was saying negative things about me which is bad for my character.
This is hurtful for me. Why is this guy bashing my character. If my name come up in a conversation, why does he have to inform the person that he thinks I'm a ho.
Since we stopped seeing each other, I have not attacked his character.
What is he gaining by bashing and embarrassing me?
I'm tempted to call him and ask why? I can't stop he from saying negative things? I just want to understand why after all this time he still wants to hurt me.
I'm not a ho. I'm a single divorced woman hoping to meet Mr. Right. I do date hoping to meet him, does being on the dating scene make you a ho?

But that's the old double standard - if a woman dates a lot of men, she's automatically a ho. I wouldn't worry about it. Confronting him isn't going to do anything. He's obviously a completely ignorant child.
The people who know you and who you count as your friends know the real you and know that you are no "ho".