hard to accept they are happy now
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hard to accept they are happy now
| Fri, 07-02-2004 - 9:34pm |
why is it so hard to accept that after a few weeks they are now happy and that hes so happy with someone else now. why is he happy with her and not me? just when i thought the crying stopped, i find myself taking steps backwards....i cannot move on, its so hard. is there anybody out there who can tell me when this will stop..i want to be happy too but why is that so hard to reach right now...

breathe.
just a few weeks? i promise you he's not head over heels for this new girl, its just so unlikely. she sounds like a typical rebound, and everything's always easy int he beginning, and she's probably a nice distraction so he doesnt have to address of any of the issuesof your break up.
and its so natural that its paining you to see this happen! i cant give you an exact date as to when you'll feel better, but time is really the best medicine. in these moments its so hard to imagine that there is light at the end of the tunnell but i promise you there is, things always work out its just a hard climb.
be patient with yourself, allow yourself to be upset but also keep optimistic, know that there are great things in store for you, that you will be happy with somebody else too,a ndtaht this feeling will pass.
and as always, keep posting
ace :)