why did he do it??
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why did he do it??
| Sat, 07-03-2004 - 4:10pm |
the last time i posted a message here was on 29th February... after that message and all the advice i got (thanks guys..!) i felt so much better.. but then something happened to bring me down again... last monday, a mutual friend (of both my ex and i) came to visit us.. before this he (the friend) had been posted in another state for work purposes.. we had kept in touch through online chatting etc... when he came over, he decided to bunk up with my ex.. and on monday, he gave me a call using my ex's mobilephone.. not remembering his number, i answered only to hear my ex on the line.. i was asked by my friend to follow them to a relative's wedding as well as a drink after.. i turned down the offer, even after much persuasion.. i felt that it would be awkward for me to face my ex again... they left it at that.. but later that night.. my ex messaged me.. and using a pet name that he knew i loved, he asked me to join him and the friend for a drink.. i turned him down.. by lying (which i know is bad) that i was in the cinema catching a movie.. he said never mind and left it at that.... from that day i haven't heard from him or the friend...
those incidents totally threw me off guard.. doesnt he know that i couldnt possibly face him and that i still dont have the emotional stability to see him or even talk to him.. even today when we see each other we still have an uncomfortable time... surely he should get the hint to stay away?? what did he do it??
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| Sat, 07-03-2004 - 7:07pm |
Welcome back!! I'm glad we helped at least a little. I'm sure your ex was just making an attemp at a friendship and I'm sure your mutual friend wanted you to come along and your ex wanted him to have a good time. I would be sure to tell your friend why you didn't come so he doesn't think you don't want to be friends with him. As for you ex...you're right to not what to be around him since you aren't over him yet. Good luck and keep us posted!

