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| Sun, 07-04-2004 - 12:54pm |
well it`s been about 4 mos since me &ex broke up..I`m doing good..I just had surgery which went very well..I got a new job around the time we broke up and that made things better for me at a rough time..and alot of guys are attracted to me,whch is nice,in fact I am definitely on the lookout now,I asked my friend to set me up and i make a point to get to knwo the guys I work with,since there are alot! and me and my friends yes we are all single and like to have fun at the bars just like guys do.Well my ex wants to be friends..see we broke up because a scumbag friend of his was telling my best friend things about my ex,like hes cheatint,etc..and after so many rumors i couldn`t love him anymore i didnt know what was going on!so we borke up,because i was being mean to him kind of and he was always mad that i listened to whatever I was hearing..well he doesn`t talk to that guy anymore and he is no longer speaking to anothe friend of his because he is a pothead and drinks too much..so it makes sEnse he wants to be friends..he has none now!i was actually the one who initiated being friends with texting him,so he isn`t using me,but it makes me feel better about things in general..like he should not have hung out with the scumbag to begin with..and he knows it because the rumors and nonsense messed things up....so i feel so much better about everything now,like it hurts when you think the guy didnt care,well he did but his friend made him look like an ass,and i am the one with friends and goes out and does things and well he dont ..so to all ladies who have been hurt,trust me it will get better...he wil lbe sorry..my ex isnt a bad guy,but he was stupid..i made mistakes not trusting him and i hurt him,and i was the one who made attempt to be friends,hes not using me because i got in contact with him first(if he did it first then i never would talk to him)but it does make me feel better,crazy as it is..now do i want him back? NO! NO! NO!That is why i CAN be JUST FRIENDS! i don`t have feelings for him anymore!he didnt drop the jerk who was causing trouble and as a result he dont talk to anyone anymore.I realize now if i was the one dealing with rumors then now i dont have to deal with it anymore,i can talk to my ex without beign hurt...hearign rumors made me sit around and wonder what wqs really going on? is it true he is cheating or whatever? now i DONT have that stress anymore! sorry this is long...so i finaly at the point where i can talk to my ex with no feelings or sadness....and i feel so much better..any input would be great,esp from the ladies who are firends with exes,any advice woudl be great
