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How long has it been..
| Sun, 07-04-2004 - 8:39pm |
Since you and your ex have talked/seen each other since the break up?
For me, We broke up just over 2 months ago, And I haven't seen him for about a month, and I haven't talked to him in a week (the investigation for my job just finished, so he's blocked and deleted again :)... I'm getting there!!!
I was thinkin, it's too bad we all didn't live in the same city, imagine how much fun all us "heart broken" girlies could have on a night out in the town together? ;)

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Christan
I admit that I went against all advice and poured out my hurt and anger in a return email (hey...he's the one who brought it up). It was not nasty, actually it was very well written and thought out. Needless to say, I haven't heard back. Not a big surprise from a self confessed coward. I am guessing that most of what I said hit a nerve, or else he would have wrote back refuting it. I had hoped that one day, we could have at least been friendly (if not true friends) with each other. An occasional "hey how's it going?" email. We live in the same community, so chances are that we will run into one another eventually. It would have been nice to have cleared the air so when that happens we can at least be cordial to each other. But if he doesn't respond to my email, then I guess the chances of that happening are nil.
At least I said no, and that was the right thing, and it means he might not try again which is good right? It isn't love he wanted to give, just a wild night. I am on the mend again....
Christan
It's been 5 months since my breakup and 2 weeks since I saw him. For the first 3 months I was getting much better each day but then we saw each other and he started calling me all the time... telling me he missed me and still wonders if he made a mistake. I actually listened even though I knew he was dating someone else. 2 weeks ago we saw each other again and we wound up getting into a fight because I wanted to know if these "talks" were going anywhere since he was seeing someone else. After that I told him to never call me again... but yesterday I broke down and sent him an email. There are too many things to explain about our 3 year relationship, but I guess deep down I hope he figures out his committment issues. I know I still love him and if he ever came back I would want to work things out... but in the meantime I am enjoying being single and meeting new people. It's kind of nice having all of the responsibilities that we accumulated while living together.
It's been 4 months since the break up, we were still at school and living across the hall from each other, it's been a little over 3 months since he lied straight to my face when I asked him if he was seeing someone already...and that someone that he denied seeing was like a sister to me....it's been 2 months since school let out and had no contact with him...and I miss him...but I don't! He screwed me over big time, and there is no way in hell that I would take him back ever, he doesn't deserve me or my time. But...there are times when I just break down and think about all the good times...or what I thought were good times...and I just hope that someday soon he will come back and realize what a fool he was and beg me to take him back....but I still won't. It would just be nice to know that I'm being missed and he's as miserable as I was/still sorta am. Stupid boys...can't live with 'em...can't live without 'em.
~*~Zsa
Where does everyone lives? I'm in NJ.
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