panic!! he called me!!
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panic!! he called me!!
| Wed, 07-07-2004 - 5:26am |
9 weeks ago he dumped me.
threw me out of our home after 7 years.
sent me packin from spain to the uk with only a bag of clothes said he didnt love me anymore.
i called him a few times after.
he didnt called me once. not once.
i started no contact 5 weeks ago.
ive had about 5 calls where the other person has hung up.
(we do not have the callers number to return the call).
last night i got home to a message.
he wants to talk to me, hear my voice and to know how i am.
IVE BEEN DEVASTATED AND HURT!! THATS HOW IVE F***ING BEEN!!
i dont know what to do. i mean should i do anything?
im angry, sad, confused, hopeful all at the same time.
what does he want after all this time?
is he having second thoughts? is he just lonely? or is he looking for a way to ease his guilt?
come on guys, any advice welcome/opinions truly welcome.
tracy xx.

I dont have much time because i have to go to work soon...
but I can understand you are confused and have hopes again and everything...I think he misses you yes...I dont know what u should do..I think wait untill he phones again and then talk to him on a normal level.
If he wants you back he shall have to fight for it, dont make it easy for him. so then u can be sure that he really wants you, if its hard for him but he still tries he wants you. Yes, maybe he feels lonely...I dont know.... Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Maybe talk to you later...
xxxxSamantha
Whatever problems you had in the relationahip are most likely still there after onlya few months. If he is serious about wanting to be with you, he will make it clear and he will have to prove himself to you for an extended period of time before you should even CONSIDER it!
Unless he says and ACTS that he wants you back, don't get yoru hopes up. He is most likely trying to appease his guilt and loneliness. I know this may seem cold but was he really thinking of your best interests when he kicked you out? Do you htink a person can change so drastically after such a short time?? Be honest with yourself. Take a step back and remember who he REALLY is.
Also, there is a string of posts started by milton333 regarding a similar situation. You should read those too.
Hang in there, be strong and remember to look out for YOUR interests.