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help me get over him
| Fri, 07-09-2004 - 5:26am |
i have been in a relationship for a year and two weeks tonight (thursday)my boyfriend started dating someone new and never told me. he told my friends who told me. he happens to live with me and someone else and he now brings his new girlfriend to the house to spend the night she is younger than me and i feel like i am old so he moved on i am only 25. he says he wants to be my friend but i cant handle just being friends with someone i love. he trys to act like everything is ok. no one seems to undertand what i feel i dont feel like getting up in the morning or eating or anything. please help
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| Fri, 07-09-2004 - 7:37am |
Obviously he and you have completely different ideas of what your "relationship" is. Either that or he is a complete loser. The two of you have been dating for a year? Have you ever had any clear conversations about what your relationship means exactly? Or is it possible that he's been thinking that you're a friend-with-benefits while you were thinking something more serious? Did you guys break up? Need a little more info, here.
| Fri, 07-09-2004 - 3:53pm |
he never technically told me it was over. we never broke up offically. he just started seeing someone new. he wont talk to me except to tell me that he is confused about things and says he dosnt love me anymore. i still havn't figured out how someone can turn that off.i am begining to think that all i was was a friend with benefits like you say. i tell him this and he says no i wasnt he just is confused and it makes no sense.
| Sat, 07-10-2004 - 9:31am |
He sounds like he is making an excuse to date other people, if that is the case then he should have just said so. He shouldn't say things like he is confused because he certainly isn't confused about being with another woman! How old is this guy? Cut him loose!!! Sounds like he needs a wake-up call!!! In the meantime, date other guys and get out more.
| Sun, 07-11-2004 - 12:52am |
he told me tonight they decided to call everything off. i am cautious because i dont want to get hurt but he is showing signs of wanting me back. help
| Sun, 07-11-2004 - 1:03pm |
How do you know he won't do that again? Don't give a man another chance to hurt you!
