w/a guy 4 a year, but have found someone
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w/a guy 4 a year, but have found someone
| Sat, 07-10-2004 - 2:21am |
I have been w/a great guy for over a year now. He has moved to CO and I live in OK. He moved back to CO to find a job for his degree, he has only been gone a month. I really miss him and love him. I ended up meeting a very interesting guy when I when out w/my friends last weekend. We really hit it off and we've been talking to eachother on the phone and seeing eachother almost every day. I am so confused I don't know what to do! What is worse I also am developing feelings for him. I don't know what to do about my long distance b/f or what to tell him. Please help me!

One thing to keep in mind, long distance relationships are hard to maintain. They take more work than a normal relationship, because the person isn't there to remind you everyday why you love them. You don't have the everyday affection and caressing, the tender moments that mean so much in a romantic relationship. You don't constantly see their mannerisms, hear their voice, or any of the other things that make them so special.
I would say, don't do anything rash. It's only been since last weekend that you've known this new guy. Don't impulsively throw away a year-long relationship, irreparably hurting your boyfriend in the process. Take your time, analyze your feelings, speak openly with your boyfriend about what's going on and how you're feeling, and be honest with this new guy. Most important: Don't cheat!
Lois