Getting him out of my mind

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Registered: 06-07-2004
Getting him out of my mind
Sun, 07-11-2004 - 8:22pm
Basically, things are just going downhill with the guy I've been seeing and myself. He basically went AWOL for almost two weeks and out of the blue he calls and acts like everything is okay. I don't trust him and didn't want to talk to him but he called like everyday. Anyways, even though there has been no official break-up I am doing my darndest to prepare myself and separate myself from him. I've been getting more involved in work, school, and making other friends and spending time with friends. "Distracting" myself helps me while I'm in the moment but when I'm back at home by myself, I just want to cry and end up crying myself to sleep. I just need some space and when I try to give myself that space, I'm fine but I want to break that final link. Any advice?