the decision is made.. now HOW AND WHEN?
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| Thu, 07-15-2004 - 5:04pm |
After weeks of thought, I have made the final decision to leave my bf of 2 years. I have gotten a lot of advice here, and you're all probably right. I'm too young to be in a relationship that has constant bickering, and I can't be tied down to someone who has so many qualities that bug me. That... and I have feelings for someone else <:/
But I just can't believe this. It's so hard... how do I end something that's been going on so long? How do I tell him? And when?? We're in a long distance relationship and I won't see him for another week and a half... but I feel terrible doing it over the internet (our main means of communication) and we never talk on the phone (we're just not phone people). Should I wait??? I don't know if I can wait that long and pretend everything is just fine.
Also I feel horrible for him.. he's in school right now and his exams start in a few weeks. What if he's devastated? I'm not really 100% sure how he'll react, but I SO don't want to hurt him. He's an amazing guy.. I just don't think he's right for me anymore.
Any advice on how and when I should break the news?? Any suport and help will be appreciated, I am really scared. :(
- Alex

Good Luck!