Things are getting sticky...

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Registered: 10-28-2003
Things are getting sticky...
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Fri, 07-16-2004 - 12:25pm
Well I have told him that there is no way I'm getting back with him, because last night he called me a bitch, a whore, and told me that I was ugly and that he had always thought so. (How immature...I know it's not true, it isn't bothering me.) But one problem...he has my mothers wedding band that my dad gave to me when I turned 13. I told my ex to take it with him when he left because I believed that he would be back at the beginning of July ,and that he would give it to me then.. He refuses to send it back. I told him that if he didn't send it, I would turn him in for statutory rape (I know this was immature too, and a low blow, but I'm desperate). He told ME that if I did that, he would send photos of me (nude polariods that I gave him in February or so) to everyone in my address book, including my parents, and I really don't want them to know that I had sex with him or that he has those photos of me. I realize that I could get him again for having child porn (I'm only 15...he's almost 19) but this situation is getting much more stickier than I thought it would. Does anyone have any advice? It would be well appreciated. Thanks!

Tina


Edited 7/16/2004 12:47 pm ET ET by tinytina07

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Registered: 01-30-2004
Fri, 07-16-2004 - 8:11pm
I'm sorry you had to put up with such crap from your ex.....at least you've gotten out of the relationship. Unfortuantely I don't have any suggestions on getting the ring back....but threatening to get him on unrelated legal charges isn't going to work....but just make him more angry and make him want to keep the ring from you even more. My suggestion is to cut your losses (as hard as that may be) and try to move on...maybe in time he'll decide to do the right thing and give the ring back but don't hold your breath. You could try and find someone who would get the ring back but he could always lie and say he doesn't have it. Good luck!













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