I saw the EX
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| Mon, 07-19-2004 - 7:42pm |
On Saturday my ex called me to ask if I mailed his spare car key back to him and I said no, I will put it in the mail on Monday. So he says I would rather have you bring it by so it doesn't get lost in the mail. I havn't seen him since the day I left the house when he was at work because he became very abusive and just crazy twords me.
Anyways I went over there and took him the key and turned around to walk out, and he said wait I want to show you some things. So he took me on a house tour and was showing me the things he bought for the house since I left and then he wanted me to see his new bed ! Now why would I want to see it ? I said I didn't want to but he insisted. So after that I got up to leave and he handed me my mail and I walked out.
I looked really good when I went over there on top of that I have lost 25 pounds since the break up and he hasn't seen me, I am also really really tan, which he commented on.
My question is, how can he go from hating me trying to kill me, to being nice acting like we were old buddies, especially wanting to show me the new bed ! He even pointed out the holes he put in the wall from throwing my things around ?
It has only been three weeks since I left and I was just wondering what everones take was on the situation. Does he want me back, was he trying to make me jealous, what ? thanks ladies.

I will never ever forget the holes in the wall, the important things of mine he broke that I can not ever replace, the bruises on my arms and legs, the heartache I had when he cheated on me twice and the numerous lies he told me throughout the past 18 months.
Thanks everyone for your advice, and I didn't loose the 25lbs in 3 weeks, it took 7 weeks, it was 3 weeks since I moved out, sorry for the confusion.
" Don't let other people control the way you feel."
Cheers !
??? By the way, how did you lose 25 lbs. in 7 weeks? Just curious.
Best of luck to you!
I was just determined to become a better person and get back to the woman I want to be and the person I know I am. I think every woman who is in a abusive relationship looks in the mirror and doesn't even know who she is anymore. That happened to me and I decided to take myself back, I wasn't going to let him win or change me for the worse, I am not the person I was when I was with him, he brought out the worst in me and I never want to be that way again.
I just think, the abuse, the pain, the worries everything doesn't exist anymore cause I am not with him, I left him, I took control of my life and I left and becuase of that he can't hurt me anymore in anyway. Good luck.