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I Have Big Problems
| Wed, 07-21-2004 - 12:01am |
Ok, here is the deal! : I've been with my boyfriend for more than 3 years now, but things are starting to go downhill. At first I thought it was normal, like no relationship is perfect right? But the past few months have been pretty rough, I mean I don't even really miss him that much when we're apart anymore. But here's the second part to the story, I have a crush. I would never cheat on my boyfriend, that's the last thing on my mind, but I think the fact that I am even thinking about other guys means that there is definately something wrong with the relationship. I don't know what to do. I don't really want to break up with my boyfriend, and I've tried telling him how I feel, but he doesn't take me seriously. I just want him to treat me like he did when we first started going out. . . Can someone tell me what I can say to him to make things better? Or should I just dump him?

You don't miss him when you're apart and you have a crush on someone else-----all signs point to the possibility that you've lost interest in your bf. You need to sit down and try to pinpoint why that is....what is it about this other guy that makes him sooo desierable? What does he have that your bf doesn't? Is it because you aren't getting the attenion you want or is it something deeper? I think you need to figure out what it is that would make you happy and go for it...even if that means dumping your bf. Maybe you could try to reunite that spark you had...maybe try recreating that 1st date or some other fond memory....something that could make the two of you fall in love all over again. good luck and keep us posted!!