Girl At The Party Caught His Eye
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Girl At The Party Caught His Eye
| Sat, 09-25-2004 - 6:35pm |
My boyfriend and I went to a party last night. There was a girl there that my boyfriend couldn't take his eyes off of. I didn't say anything, but it was apparent, at least to me. His eyes were following her every move. Nothing happened between them (that I noticed) and we eventually went home together and I never brought it up.
We've been dating for almost a year and I have never noticed him gawk/lurk the way he did last night. I'm not sure if I've just been blind to the fact, if I'm just reading too much into it or if maybe there's more to the story.
We've been dating for almost a year and I have never noticed him gawk/lurk the way he did last night. I'm not sure if I've just been blind to the fact, if I'm just reading too much into it or if maybe there's more to the story.
Should I bring this up to him or leave it alone and forget about it?

From the effort alone that you put forth by posting your concerns...your boyfriend's lurking at this "girl at the party" is something that obviously bothers you.
I think that you should bring it up, and discuss it with him.
The two of you have been together for almost a year---so you shouldn't feel any hesitation about discussing your feelings with him.
My question is: If he's with you, then why is he blatantly looking at this girl? Also if he's doing so while you're with him--then you should question what he does when the two of you are not together. However, I also know that sometimes guys can let their eyes wander--women do this too!----but it's something that one usually shouldn't do when in a comitted relationship! (and especially when their partner is with them--I think that it is very disrespecful).
Don't just let it slide and "forget about it"---your concerns about his behavior are valid and come from a truthful place in your heart and soul. There's nothing wrong for wanting to talk to him about it. Communication is key to any relationship.
Good luck!
ms_flavor
Good luck, let us know what happens! But it is definitely worth talking about…. its how you feel, never be ashamed of your feelings.