Stay strong!

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Registered: 09-14-2004
Stay strong!
Sat, 10-02-2004 - 2:03pm
Hi everyone!

I had a free moment so I decided to send a few words of support your way...I hope everyone's weekend is going well. I know it's tough--last night, even though I was surrounded by some of my closest friends, I found myself thinking of the ex and wondering what he was up to. I found myself hoping that he would contact me (even though I had no intention of responding of course)...I wondered if he was thinking of me at all. Then I thought to myself, WHY?! I looked around me and saw all of these wonderful people that care about me, treat me well, and actually want to be a part of my life. I don't need the ex because he doesn't need me, and he's made that fairly obvious. The only people I want in my life are those who choose to be there...and he hasn't been there for me for the past 4 months. Of course, it'd be nice to know that I haven't been forgotten about...but I just tell myself that isn't possible. If he's anything like me (or most normal people), you can't just completely forget someone, no matter how much you want to/how hard you try. Even if he doesn't care, even if he doesn't want to be with me...I was a big part of his life for 2+ years and that doesn't just go away. And maybe it's arrogant of me, but that makes me feel better :) I hope everyone's remaining strong and doing the things that make them happy...enjoy your weekend! Enjoy your life! And take care of yourself! <3

"Everyday you sit back and wait for something to happen is another day lost..."