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is he trying to say get lost
| Tue, 10-12-2004 - 6:04pm |
Sorry...another question on same relationship
Been dating 2 1/2 mths...(he just asked me to be exclusive 2 wks ago) He is in law school which I know keeps him busy. He has never been good about calling...I almost always do...and then he calls back. This sat we went out for about 6 hrs but he had to go home early to work on hw...that was thrown on him on wed (he told me about earlier) On the date he said something about knowing where my new place is going to be so I can't get away from him...at the end of the date he told me to call him the next day(could that just been a way to end the date comfortably??) I did call him but his phone went right to Voice mail (so it was probably off, i also called him late so he could've been sleeping) But its tues. and he hasnt called me back. Although on the VM i didnt say to, just that I'd talk to him later. I also started a new job on monday and he didn't call to even ask me how it went. Since we are now b/f g/f shouldn't he call me to end things. Do you think he wants to end things and is hoping i just stop calling. Anytime i call he always returns my calls. He always says im beautiful and he always holds my hand (i know this doesnt mean anything) What should I do...I hate waiting for him to call it is to stressful. Now that we are exclusive would it be okay if i call him. Are there many of you out there (women) who generally always call their busy BF's. How do you guys feel. Any advice about what to do would be helpful.
Been dating 2 1/2 mths...(he just asked me to be exclusive 2 wks ago) He is in law school which I know keeps him busy. He has never been good about calling...I almost always do...and then he calls back. This sat we went out for about 6 hrs but he had to go home early to work on hw...that was thrown on him on wed (he told me about earlier) On the date he said something about knowing where my new place is going to be so I can't get away from him...at the end of the date he told me to call him the next day(could that just been a way to end the date comfortably??) I did call him but his phone went right to Voice mail (so it was probably off, i also called him late so he could've been sleeping) But its tues. and he hasnt called me back. Although on the VM i didnt say to, just that I'd talk to him later. I also started a new job on monday and he didn't call to even ask me how it went. Since we are now b/f g/f shouldn't he call me to end things. Do you think he wants to end things and is hoping i just stop calling. Anytime i call he always returns my calls. He always says im beautiful and he always holds my hand (i know this doesnt mean anything) What should I do...I hate waiting for him to call it is to stressful. Now that we are exclusive would it be okay if i call him. Are there many of you out there (women) who generally always call their busy BF's. How do you guys feel. Any advice about what to do would be helpful.

If you're always calling him, he's not that into you. Him ending a date with "call me," rather than lining up the next date/contact or saying "I'll call you tomorrow," that's a big giveaway, he's just passively along for the ride, but not interested enough. Yes, he should have called about your new job. I've dated (and been married to) guys who send flowers to the new job. You have every right to expect that the person with whom you're exclusively involved would take notice of your life events and be interested in how you're doing. You should not be the only one calling, chasing him down, arranging contacts, he should at least be meeting you half-way. Try this - don't initiate contact, at all, and see what happens. If he wanted to pursue a relationship with you, you can bet he'd be on the phone in 48 hours trying to figure out what's going on with you. He definitely wouldn't let a weekend approach or pass by without locking down plans with you. So, if you don't hear from him, that's your answer.