DOES HE WANT TO BE WITH ME OR NOT
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DOES HE WANT TO BE WITH ME OR NOT
| Wed, 10-13-2004 - 2:24pm |
I'M HOPING SOMEONE OUT THERE CAN HELP ME OR GIVE SOME ENCOURAGMENT. MY B/F AND I HAVE BEEN TOGTHER 2 1/2 YEARS LIVED TOGTHER ALMOST THE HOLE TIME ANYWAYS HE BROKE UP WITH ME ABOUT A YEAR AGO BUT THEN CAME BACK RELIZED I WAS THE ONE ECT ECT... WELL NOW A YEAR LATER AGAIN THINGS ARE ABOUT OVER HIS DOING AGAIN HE SAYS HE WANTS TO BE WITH ME BUT HE'S HAVING TO MANY PROBLEMS AND THIS TIME HE WANTS TO DEAL WITH THEM ALONE HE SAYS HE DOESNT HAVE TIME TO DEAL WITH THE RELASHONSHIP RIGHT NOW SO IF I WANT TO GO GO OR IF I WANT TO STAY THEN STAY HE DOESNT CARE ONE WAY OR ANOTHER BUT ON THE OTHER HAND ACKNOWLEDGES THAT HE'S PRETTY SURE IF I GO HE'S GONNA REGRET IT LATER AND HE'S NOT ASKING OR TELLING ME TO STICK THIS OUT WITH HIM BUT IF I DO EVERYTHING WILL BE WORTH IT IN THE END BUT RIGHT NOW I'M MISERABLE WE DONT TALK AT ALL HE JUST WANTS ME TO LEAVE HIM ALONE NO SEX EVER BUT HE'S JUST FINE WITH HIS PORNS. I LOVE HIM SO MUCH AND WE'VE BEEN THROUGH SO MUCH AND I REALLY FEEL WE'RE MEANT TO BE IF WE COULD JUST GET THROUGH THIS SLUMP BUT I DONT KNOW IF STICKING IT OUT IS WORTH IT I'M SO TORN RIGHT NOW SO ANY ADVICE WOULD BE REALLY HELPFUL. THANKS....

I'm speaking from experience and i'm still going through it as i write. i find if i tell people, it reinforces in my own head. So i'm still crawling and i sympathize with you. Feel free to respond.
I'm sorry for the pain you're going through. Lord knows I've certainly been there more often than I'd care to admit. Nevertheless, I think the best thing you can do is give yourself the closure you seek by putting one foot in front of the other and moving forward.
You deserve to be with a man who loves you the same way that you love him.
Life is short. When you're in a relationship and you're not getting what you want, need and deserve, move on.
All the best,
Heymum