Just wondering....

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Registered: 05-06-2003
Just wondering....
Wed, 10-13-2004 - 2:52pm
I began dating my ex about six months ago. For the first two months, he tried to smother me and I asked that he please slow down. He was scaring me by talking about marriage and being in love. Two months later, he changed and things went downhill from there. He'd break up with me and then we'd get back together. So, fast forward to about a month or so ago...he says he doesn't want to lose me and he loves me. Says he wants to slow things down. Well, that didn't work either and believe me, I tried and tried. He just treated me so badly. Then, the last straw came when he just wanted to have casual sex from time to time. No way was I going to do that, so I told him goodbye. He said that his feelings weren't the same as they were at first, but he did care about me. Told me to call him if I ever needed to, and I said no, once I'm gone, I'm gone. That was about a month ago, and I think, but I'm not sure, that he's been calling my cell phone and blocking his number, especially on the weekends. I don't answer it, and he has done this before when we were dating, but I never confronted him about it.

So, he dumps me and he has no feelings for me. Then, I don't understand why he would block his number and call my cell phone. He doesn't want me and I'm moving on. I just don't get it. I was hoping that maybe some of you have experienced this before and can give me some insight.

Thanks.