Not quite sure what to think
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Not quite sure what to think
| Sat, 10-16-2004 - 11:01am |
I had been seeing this wonderful guy for quite some time now. Before we started dating we, hung out with the same group of people for quite some time, we were good friends. Things were going great for us and him and I were talking about the future and how great life would be. We share many of the same interests and commom goals in life. For some time now his mother has had breast cancer, and the other day they did incisions to try and remove the cancer and they found that the cancer has spread too much and they can not remove it all. The doctors do not believe she has much time. After my boyfriend found this out, he broke off our relationship. He said he didn't feel he knew what he wanted, but he thought that we were better off as friends. He said he felt he couldn't open up to me when we were dating like he could when we were friends. I am stuck in a dillema here, I want to be able to help him through this because he really does not have anyone else but in the same time I still love him and I believe that he still cares deeply about me. He said this may be one of those things where he has to loose me before he realizes what he had. I just wish I understood why he would end something that was so great and was what we had both wanted for such a long time. It is hard now because, I still hang out with the same group he is in, we are a very close knit group of people, I just don't know how to cope with everything, I just want to run and not have to see him but unfortuenately I am going to have to face this, I just don't know how. I just wish I knew what he was thinking.
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| Sat, 10-16-2004 - 12:04pm |
Welcome to the board!! I'm so sorry to hear about your bf's mom....that must be really hard for him to accept and I think he's just got to many emotions running through his head to know what he wants right now. I don't think this break-up is due to anything you've done just back circumstances. I'm sorry that it turned out this way. But you never know....once all his raw emotions subside he may change his mind. But try not to hold on to that hope for to lond....I'd hate to see you put your life on hold just of thought of possibly recoinciling. I think you can be there for him....this is a very difficult time for him and he needs a friend. Good luck and keep us posted.

