Happy Birthday To me

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Registered: 09-10-2004
Happy Birthday To me
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Sat, 10-16-2004 - 11:44am
Well, today is my birthday a month and a week after my boyfriend, and I of 4 years broke it off. I'm still not happy,but I managed to stop crying for awhile, but today is real hard for me, and everytime I look I got the feeling in the pit of my stomach like I am about to cry again and again.... I feel like I never ever ever want to fall in love with anyone again, but I decided against letting him still my joy like that so I will move on, but right now things are not good for me.. My birthday has always been special because he made it special for me, as you get older it seems as though others don't really even acknowledge your birthday,and so we made it a point to make the day real special for each other on those days...Well I just wanted to post here to state my feelings, I hope everyone else is doing better than myself.....


Have a good day

Lynn

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Registered: 01-30-2004
Sat, 10-16-2004 - 11:53am
Happy birthday!!!! I know you don't probably feel much like celebrating but I think maybe you should try getting out of the house and go do something for you.....go buy yourself a b-day present or go out with friends and just try your best to have fun.....at least when you're out and about you'll have less time to sit and think. Good luck and remember we're here for you if you need us!!
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Registered: 07-06-2004
Sat, 10-16-2004 - 1:44pm
Happy Birthday!!!

Today is YOUR day so like Heidi said Try to have a good time...................Things will get better, I promise! Just know you are not alone and we are all here for you!

((((((((((HUGS)))))))) Take care,sweetie
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Registered: 04-04-2003
Sun, 10-17-2004 - 1:18am
Happy Birthday! Try not to be so down. I realize by the time you read this your B-day will have passed but I will be facing the same thing in a little less than a week. You aren't alone! Stay strong, keep your head up, things will get better!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 10-17-2004 - 2:50am
Happy Birthday, Lynn! I'm so sorry today was difficult for you. I know what it feels like to have heartache on a birthday. I spent my 40th all by myself, sick in bed, because the man I loved was with another woman and couldn't make up his mind which one he wanted to be with ... Man that hurt. That really hurt.

You are brave, loving, special, caring. You're a good and true person, worthy of being loved, worthy of being treated well and cared for. You will have a great relationship someday, with a man who cherishes you and is happy to be with you all the time, not just when it suits him.

I'm sorry I couldn't get online sooner to wish you a happy day. This will just have to be a belated happy birthday messsage ...