I'm going to be ok... I know I will be

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Registered: 07-08-2004
I'm going to be ok... I know I will be
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Fri, 10-29-2004 - 1:04pm
Hello ...

I've posted several posts about my recent break up and now I've heard he might have met another girl already, before we even broke up ... NOW I don't know this for a fact, but you know what .. I'm not even going to go there. He thinks that we are going to stay friends, basically he wants to have his cake and eat it too, but you know what .. not gonna happen. I made sure that he can't contact me anymore and I'm not going to contact him. The kind of hurt and damage this person has put me through in the last week (and not even realized it yet) is over. I'm not going to let someone do this to me anymore. I'm my own person and I need to look out for ME. He's 20 y/o .. immature .. and doesn't even know how to deal with things in his life...those are his problems that I can't worry about anymore. I know I'm going to be ok ... I know that ... and by letting go all together .. no contact .. that's the first step for me to heal ... he's an a**hole, a jerk and to say that out loud .. feels damn good ... thanks for listening to all my posts ...

I will keep in touch...

Lynne

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Registered: 01-30-2004
Sat, 10-30-2004 - 11:20pm
(((Lynne))) I think you have the right attitude. You don't deserve to be treated this way and you *shouldn't* have to accept it. No contact is a great start as is....seeing him for what he truly is. During break-ups crap gets started...as in rumors etc....and the girl thing may be completely fabricated....but who cares whether it is or not.....at least he won't be your problem anymore. Yes it hurts but you'll get through this and come out even stronger!! Good luck and keep us posted!!
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