"He's just not that into you"

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Registered: 10-23-2004
"He's just not that into you"
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Sat, 10-30-2004 - 12:00am
Oh My goodness! This was the BEST book I have ever read!!! I seriously didn't think it was going to help me deal with my break up, just because I didn't think anything could. But wow, hearing the truth was probably the best thing for me. This book gave me exactly what I needed, It showed me that I was totally worth way more then what my EX had been giving me! that I could do better, and I should NOT settle. But seriously everyone should read it! I feel so amazing, and i'm HAPPY! get the book ladies! you won't regret it!
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Registered: 08-07-2004
Sat, 10-30-2004 - 12:55am
I TOTALLY agree!!! I didn't see much of myself in it, except for the Freaks chapter. I had just gotten over a horrendous breakup. I had already decided that I'm not going to chase after men. They have to have to have enough interest in me and enough confidence in themselves to make the first move. But this book confirmed my resolutions. I've been passing it along to my girlfriends. I see them in this book a lot. Are you doing the same, Princess?
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Registered: 10-22-2004
Sun, 10-31-2004 - 1:03am
I enjoyed the book as well, and read it in one night. It has really enlightened me on some things about men, and I'm actually preaching those words "He's Just Not That Into You", to all my female friends. It has helped me understand certain things from my previous relationship, and I think my ex helped him write it, because every chapter had his name in it. But you have to make your own judgements, but this book will help you for fture relationships, I can't wait until I meet someone again, and see if there name is in one of those chapters. If it is, seeeeee yah, buddy!!!
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-31-2004
Sun, 10-31-2004 - 6:49pm
Why can't men tell us they are "just not that into you" in the first place so that we can move on without wasting our times?
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2003
Wed, 11-03-2004 - 4:25pm
because they want to be taken care off by you. they want to have sex without being emotionally committed and they want someone to spend time with!!

They wont tell you anything and if you dont figure it out they would consider you guilty.

They will say you really thought we love you!!! How stupid is that to think so!!

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I wonder why it is usually men who act like this? Why cant women do the same? is it society or genes or the ticking clock attached to our bodies!!

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-30-2004
Wed, 11-03-2004 - 10:42pm
I've been hearing alot about this book lately and I'm glad to hear that it helped you. That's so much for sharing and remember we're here if you need to talk!!









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