Trying to Get Him to see it's Over
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Trying to Get Him to see it's Over
| Thu, 01-20-2005 - 1:59pm |
I have been in a bad relationship for 10 years. We have never lived to gether, I have 2 kids from pervious marriage. I also have a 4 year old with him. He has been cheating on me for about 8 of the 10 years. I told him I wanted to get on with my life a year ago but I hesitated, I started going out with friends but not dating. Recently I began dating and he found out about it he refuses to believe it is over even though I have told him 100 times. Help!!!! Any advice?????

File for a temporary parenting plan and child support with respect to your child. If he continues to harrass you, you can also file for a restraining order that only permits him to contact you on issues pertaining to the child.
In the meantime, every time he calls you (and you have to be consistent, over and over), ask him "does this pertain to ?" If the answer is no, say, "ok, I'm hanging up now" then do so. Don't engage him in any conversation that doesn't pertain to the child.
Sheri