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getting out
| Fri, 01-21-2005 - 9:50am |
I have been in a roller coaster relationship for about 9 months, 6 of which we have been living together. I have two small children from a previous marriage, so it's not just me that I have to think about. I know this relationship needs to end because I'm not happy. I have told him that I need to move out and I believe it, but he always seems to talk me out of it. Is it wrong to just move out and not tell him until I'm gone? I need help fast.

Hi,
I don't think it is wrong if you feel it is "right" and what you must do to be happy and for your children to be happy.
If that is what you have to do, then do it, leave a note if it is too painful for you to be able to talk to him without talking you out of it.
Don't feel guilty. You have you and your children's best interest to look out for.
Carrie