He Called

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Registered: 01-14-2005
He Called
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Fri, 01-21-2005 - 4:35pm
So my x called on Wednesday night. At first he acted like he was calling about me getting my things back. I found out later he told one of his friends he just couldn't take it anymore. Anyway. Then he called back Thursday morning and Thursday afternoon and asked if I could meet him to get my mail. I agreed and of course we messed around. Well I called him last night because I was invited to a concert some mutual friends of our was putting on to c if he and his girlfriend were going and he got mad. Then he calls today and said why don't we do each other a favor and leave each other alone. Hey dude I didn't call you it was the other way around. I asked if there was any way we would get back together and he said he didn't know. It boiled down to he was jealous b/c he thought I was sleeping with another man, which Im not. Anyway, he says right now he can't be faithful to me. What does this mean. I have left him alone, why did he come back and why is he doing this when he has who he suppossedly wants. He says he likes her alot, btu all the people he has cheated on me, put them all together and they still wouldn't equal to what I mean to him???????? And he says deep down his woman knows this. What am I suppossed to do.
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Registered: 06-04-2004
In reply to: madysmom2000
Fri, 01-21-2005 - 6:41pm
What are you suppose to do? IMO, good riddance! You can do much better than him I'm sure!

~leanne

deciding to be happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect, but that you had decided to look beyond the imp

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Registered: 11-09-2004
In reply to: madysmom2000
Sat, 01-22-2005 - 7:53am
Don't touch him with a 'ten foot pole'!!! As long as he has someone else I wouldn't have sex with him ... not even a hug. I just tuned in to your story and it looks like he cheated on you a lot - maybe the 'no contact' rule would be good for you. This guy seems really TOXIC in your life!!! Val
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Registered: 01-30-2004
In reply to: madysmom2000
Sat, 01-22-2005 - 7:42pm
I know this is hurting you but he is going to act this way and hurt you as long as you allow him to!!
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