Shall I go to the symphony with my ex
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Shall I go to the symphony with my ex
| Wed, 11-02-2005 - 3:51pm |
Hello everyone. My boyfriend of 1.5 years broke up with me two weeks ago. Before we broke up, we already had a plan to go to the symphony (I bought the tickets). He told me that if I still wanted him to go, he could go. The symphony is this coming Saturday. I still want to go with him, but I don't know if this is a good idea for me. If you have any suggestion, please help me. Aloha.

I really don't think it's a good idea...the sooner you start no contact, the sooner you'll be over him. Ask a good, supportive friend to go with you instead.
Sheri
I agree with Sheri, if you have the tickets, then ask someone else to go... certainly you have one friend who would want to go. If not, take your mom! Sounds like a good girls night out to me...
After a breakup the sooner you stop contact with your ex, the sooner you'll be able to move on. It's hard, but it works.
-Nikki
co-cl of Breaking Up is Hard to Do!
Hello Sheri and Nikki,
Thank you for your advise. I'm slightly understanding what both of you are saying. Just a part of me still wants to see him and see what kind of a person he became after we broke up although I know I'll get hurt. I feel I'm so stupid. It's still so unreal that I won't see him anymore because there was no warning (there might have been, but I didn't see it). Usually it's bad to think a lot in the morning for me, so I'll think more later in the day and decide what to do this Saturday. Aloha