starting NC today!!!
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| Thu, 11-03-2005 - 4:46pm |
Hi everyone:
I just posted about being friends with my ex and his mixed signals. Well it has come to the point where our friendship is pissing me off MORE than it is making me happy. Last weekend he said to me "call me and we'll hang out next week" ok, so today I sent him an email saying "so are we doing lunch or dinner on saturday?" and his reply was "well plan your weekend because I don't want to promise and then not be able to" and this isn't the first time he has done this either and it really is starting to inch up under my skin. I work for a major beer company and I picked up an extra case for him this week because he asked me to, but I would just rather give it to one of my other friends since my ex is not showing ANY interest in even seeing me. He is so scared of how he feels for me, so he would rather just not speak to me at all. God he is too much, so tonight, I am calling up my girlfriend and asking her to remind me of all the things that he did that really make me think twice about even thinking about him!!! This will be hard for me, very very hard, but you guys are right, it is too hard to be friends right now, especially since he is confused with himself!!! Any positive thoughts/advice please....
~T~

You can do it!!!
When your girlfriend starts listiing thing, write them down so you can keep the list handy and re-read when you are feeling weak.
Carrie
The book is by Greg Behrendt, same guy who wrote, "He's Just Not That Into You".
I know this is tough, but I think it's for the best for YOU.
Sheri