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| Mon, 11-28-2005 - 10:21am |
I an a newly single girl(and heartbroken) and this is the first Christmas that I’m going to be alone, my parents are off to there house in the Caribbean and I’m going to be by myself I’ve never been alone for the holidays what do I do??? I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years (I should say ex but I just can’t) I have some really great friend that have offered to let me stay with them for the holiday but I don’t want to be around anyone. I just don’t know what to do with my self. I feel so lost right now. I miss him but i can't call him. I know that he had this ex over to his house for thanksgiving that hurt. we talked about having kids he said that he wanted me to be the mother of his kids. I don't understand. how dose someone turn off feeling like that. I guess he never really had them in the first place. I don't know what to do with my self HELP!!

purplerose33...
Pianoguy is going through a similar situation this year. He's actually "dreading" the Yuletide season...despite the fact that he'll be working up until December 23rd!
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The only suggestion I have is to see what YOUR FRIENDS are doing? Perhaps they'd be willing to include you in a few of their 'holiday activities?' If any extend the invitation...TAKE IT! This way, you won't spend the holiday feeling sad :(
Meanwhile...stop thinking about the EX/BF...who he's with, and what he's doing? That chapter of your life is now over!
Give yourself permission to try something different this year.
Pianoguy
Carrie
Pianoguy has some great advice ...
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"You get what you settle for"...