do they ever come back?
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do they ever come back?
| Mon, 11-28-2005 - 7:36pm |
i am just curious. sometimes guys break up with girls because even though they love them, there are reasons it can't work. do they ever come back? do they ever miss you because you have had no contact and they want you back? or is it typically, over and done with? my best friend broke up with her dh when they were dating because he wouldn't commit to living with her, and marriage after 2 years of dating. a month of NC, one day she thanked him for the flowers (there were no flowers) and he freaked out that they weren't from him. next day he shows up with a dozen roses and asked her to move in. they have been married 5 years with one child. is this a once in a lifetime or does it sometimes happen when commitmentphobes realize what they lost?

Knowing the circumstances of your breakup from another board, I'd say that your situation is not the same as your friend's. Don't hold on to false hope. Even if he came back, you'd still have the same issues you had before the breakup.
I hope you will strongly consider counseling to work on being the best person YOU can be, so that you're ready when someone who's potentially right for you comes along. He wasn't it.
Sheri