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you will be SO proud of me!! read this!
| Sat, 12-03-2005 - 8:22am |
okay, so i have not called him back since he called me. today i am coming out of the grocery store and i see him walking down the street towards me. we make eye contact but i pretend i don't see him and i quickly walk away. this is a big change from me who would usually stop to talk. Then i don't want to be on the street with him, so i duck into my bank, which by the way isn't his bank. i know he knew i saw him. what does he do. HE FOLLOWS ME INTO THE BANK. he is standing in the doorway staring at me. i STILL act busy like i can't see him. what does he do? he comes up and stands an inch behind me. i look up and say "hey" like i am unphased. he goes, "do you not want to talk to me? I mean i am in a rush anyway to get to daves office" i go, no, i do, hi. he says hi and then acts like he is in a rush and has to run. so he lingers there shocked i think that i had nothing to say. and keeps looking back. i DID NOT look in his direction. anyway, i feel so good. usually i would stop and talk to him if i saw him but instead i acted like i didn't see him even though he knows i did. WHY did he follow me into the bank?? he could have just kept walking safely and avoiding me. WHY follow me, stand behind me? someone please tell me why?

Why? Ego, guilt, or a combination of the two. In any event, the why doesn't matter.
You did well to not engage him in conversation, but the pretending not to see him part was childish. Just acknowledge him with a nod and go on your merry way next time...no need to play silly games.
Sheri
Kudo's to you girl. You are one strong cookie. Keep it up!!!