I don't understand this

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Registered: 09-06-2005
I don't understand this
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Fri, 12-09-2005 - 2:56pm
my boyfiend and i broke up last night and it hurts so much right now i've moved all my stuff and am posting this before i go home tonite. I'm just in so much pain cause he doesn't trust me. He says he thinks that i'm lying to him about my score and that i've been with more guys than i tell him, in all honesty i do not remember i wish i could lie to him and make up a number and stories to satisfy him but then it would be an even bigger lie. this sucks so much he was my life and now he hates me i don't know what to do it hurts so much any advice...i mean i wish we could stay together but he'll never trust me....
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Registered: 12-07-2005
Fri, 12-09-2005 - 3:13pm
he's definitely not the right guy for you if his feelings for you are going to change because of superficial things like that. i mean someone who loves you, loves everything about you. or atleast accepts who you are deep down inside. this guy is way too insecure and just not someone who really knows or appreciates who you are. but i know you are in pain. after all its so fresh. i promise it will get better. remember you deserve someone who loves you and accepts you unconditionally.
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Registered: 06-06-2004
Fri, 12-09-2005 - 4:21pm
Hi yvy,
I'm sorry that you're in so much pain--I know that you're just feeling raw right now. But it sounds like this breakup is the right thing. You can't be with someone who doesn't trust you. Your past really shouldn't make that much of a difference and if he is going to mistrust you about that, I think it would only be the beginning. I know that doesn't help a lot at this moment, but you will get through this and you'll look back and realize that it was the right thing to do.
Laura