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| Tue, 12-13-2005 - 8:45am |
I'm 19, been with my boyfriend for ten months and we have just literally moved in together. Thing is, I'm feeling very claustrophobic. My boyfriend is 24 and has been married before. Before I met him I was always out with my friends and happy spending my money on shoes and bags and girly things, but now I never see my friends and all my money is "shared" on things for the house. I know I never should have moved in with him and now I feel trapped. I really love him and it breaks my heart to think that if i split up with him he'd have to move out even though we've only just moved intogether and I know he really loves me. Thing is there's no spark anymore. I don't feel the urge to snog him or sleep with him, I'd quite happily just hug and fall asleep. I don't know what to do, I want to be me for a couple of years before settling down but how do I go about it? Do i do it now before I waste anymore of his time but I couldn't do that to him before xmas? Anyone else had this before?
Please help,
surfmelxxxx

Hi Surfmel, welcome to the board!
Well, I can't tell you what you should do in this situation, because only you know how you are feeling.