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should i ask?
| Wed, 03-21-2007 - 8:06pm |
i know it is over with him. saturday nite we went out to a diner and he accused me of lying to him and i blew up. i DO NOT lie...and i made a scene and pretty much kicked him out of the diner...we had been back forth for the last four months or so. he's in vegas now on a trip so i really can't contact him but i really only want to know if he hates me...my personality can not deal with that...if he does, i know where i stand. if he doesn't, then it's like "whew, thank god" but still over. it just really bothers me to tihnk that after all the pain we went through, i don't want him to hate me and i just need a clear cut answer to move on. is that wrong and should i text him asking?

When I asked my ex questions and got answers that I did not want to hear or upset me, his response would always be, 'well, you set yourself up for these answers'
Afterwards I feel stupid for asking him questions that I either know the answers to or wish I hadn't asked. The important thing is that all these questions don't matter. Who cares if he hates you? He hurt you and its over. It shouldn't really matter but I know it does. Just be strong and know that you have friends and family who do not hate you.
Hi,
I hope you take the good advice you've gotten. It really doesn't matter if he 'hates' you in this moment, it will pass, people that heal usually get over their 'hate' and move on.
I vote no.
I think what my biggest issue is the fact that i didn't leave the relationship with any dignity...i made myself look like an idiot and now he has that last moment of us as his last memory. would have rather just ended it with class and hopefully one day he looks back on us with fond memories. i don't know.