Hurting.........

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-05-2003
Hurting.........
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Thu, 03-22-2007 - 8:07pm
hi I have been a lurker here for a while, and i feel for anyone thats down in the dumps about there breakup!!!!!!!! I just left my man of 9 years, we lived together about 6 of them......I got a ring(3 years ago) and he said in 2 years we will be married, well 2 years had passed and no sign of marriage, no talk, nothing! The straw that broke the camels back was we got into a fight about his 23 year old son who lived with us, the kid has no respect for me what so ever, my ex usually let him walk all over me!!!! I was the house keeper, launderer, lawn keeper, and pool maintance person(he cooked cuz he liked cooking) plus worked full time, I guess i just got stressed and tired!!!! I just felt like a worthless piece of Sh%t!!!!!!! I felt that this man did not love me if he didnt wanna marry me after 9 years.......dont you guys agree??? sorry theres more I can write but rite now, limited time!!! thanks for letting me ramble......mary
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-11-2006
Thu, 03-22-2007 - 10:07pm
Hi, Mary. You sound like a very patient, loving woman. I don't know what it is about some men that make them so gun-shy. Hopefully, he realize how foolish he's being, and realize what he has lost, and change his ways. If not, you deserve better, and there IS better out there.
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Registered: 02-05-2007
Fri, 03-23-2007 - 11:36am

Welcome to the board iamherejs -


Sounds like you were at the end of your rope and made the best decision for yourself.