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Why would he do this?
| Thu, 03-22-2007 - 8:42pm |
my ex and i stopped talking on Monday...4 long years of drama, we had a big blow up St Paddy's day, he hates me, i'm a waste of space, he never ever NEVER wants to see/speak to me again. he has never said this stuff to me before. so he left for vegas on tuesday for business and no contact, no nothing. fine with me (playing tough girl here) so tonight i get a picture text from him of the watershow at the Bellagio?!?!?!?!?!? WHY?
So i text him back "why did you send me that picture?" of course i wanted to add...to make me jealous? rub it in my face that you are there and I am not? just letting me know that we are through? his response....I thought you'd like it.
why did he do that? i can't honestly figure that out.
So i text him back "why did you send me that picture?" of course i wanted to add...to make me jealous? rub it in my face that you are there and I am not? just letting me know that we are through? his response....I thought you'd like it.
why did he do that? i can't honestly figure that out.

lol- I feel lilke I have been there before. Think about it...... St. Patty's day and obviously both of you were drinking. Add the two together and you will realize that he was drunk and obnoxious and not only that he may not remember saying anything to you. Plus keep in mind that most men have a habit of behaving like they have everything going on for them and they don't need you when in public and with other women in the vicinity.
Also- just to be on the safe side- Ask him if you guys officially broke up.If he says, "yes" (he's an a-hole) if he says "no" (whew!) then he may have seen it as a teeny fight and really didn't remember what he said!
Otherwise, keep your head up girl! Always!
I too can relate to men acting like complete jerks. for some reason I think that the reason they do this is because they want to be free when going to places when there may be potential for "hooking up". He thinks that at least if he did meet a fling, he wouldn't technically be hurting you or later on when you could possibly find out what he did, he can say "we weren't together"(have any of you heard that one before?...yeah, me too)
You do know that he thinks you've been sitting around waiting for him to come home so you can take him back?...don't you? If you just think that everytime he wants to get away he won't say you know I'm taking off for a few days, I'll see you when I get home. It'll be you're a waste of space. Doesn't sound fun or healthy sister.
When he gets back and tries to call you up don't answer...make him sweat and wonder if he's really lost a great girl for a stupid trip to vegas. And just maybe, if he's actually worth it, give him a call in a couple weeks....that is after you've gone out and partied a little bit and talk to other guys to get your confidence back up a little.
Good Luck to ya
Carolyn
We are definitely broken up, have been for some time, just doing the "friends" thing so I know that this isn't just a little blow up. Which is why I just don't get him sending me that picture text.
Ah, now I see.
If you two have been broken up for a while, and are doing the friends thing, then really there needs to be a lot less reading into why he does or does not do things. He probably doesn't see this entire situation with as much importance as you're giving it. Would you be equally upset and questioning this much if it was say, one of your girlfriends whom you had a fight with and then they sent that picture msg? I'm going to guess probably not THIS much.
~~.: Sandra :.~~
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