Creativity in forcing the NC rule!
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| Thu, 03-29-2007 - 7:30pm |
So it had been a couple weeks since he moved out and broke up with me. But I was still getting about 5-10 texts from him. He would tell me he loved me and missed me. How he never wanted to move on. But could not be with me. This kind of stuff hurt. I asked him kindly to stop and leave me alone for now. He said I would have to change my number if I wanted him to stop telling me he missed me. Now I have had the same number for about 8 years now, and there is no way I am changing it because of a stupid man.
So I got creative.
I dialed about 10 or fifteen random numbers till I found an out of service one that had that message about the number no longer being in service. I then set my phone to forward to that number if I ignored the call for ten seconds. So I stopped responding to all texts for about four days till he finally got worried and called a couple times. Both times I let it go to the 'out of service' number. That was two days ago. I have recieved no more texts or calls.
I should be happy right?
I miss him so much now. He has broken up with me maybe seven or eight time in the last four years. Each time, after a few weeks he would finally call and i would take him back and we would be back together. It wont be that easy for his this time. I don't want to be so stupid as to take him back that easily this time. Not only will he have to find an alternate way to contact me, but it will take more than an 'I'm sorry' to fix everything.
Who knows? This may be the final round for us. Should I really want to be with someone that is so quick to break my heart and break up rather than fix the problem?
I love him so much, and I know he cares very deeply about me but he just does not know that relationships take work and that you can't always run away instead of fix problems.
My questions is.... under what circumstances should I take him back? Should i even consider it? I mean, he obviously did not care about my feelings enough to just leave me alone for a bit after he broke my heart into a million pieces. And he obviously finds it wat too easy to hurt me without feeling anything himself.
I think I am consoling myself with the fact that he has always come back before and i am just waiting for this to happen again. But i don't want to be hurt again. How can I prevent it? Is not getting back into the relationship the only way?
Thanks for reading! I just needed to put my thoughts out there...
Kat
My website http://www.saveakat.com
| Thu, 03-29-2007 - 7:40pm |
